WHERE ARE YOU NOW?
"My divorce is done...now what do I do?"
Divorce Creates Conflict, Confusion, and Uncertainty
Divorce creates conflict, confusion, and uncertainty.
This is both common and understandable. The most important relationship in our lives has just ended. People may feel grief, a sense of loss, sorrow, or even despair — all of which are also common and natural. In many cases, this flood of emotions is difficult to process while moving forward into an unknown future. This is because people have never considered a life without their spouse, living alone, intermittent time with their children, or financial setbacks — that is, until their divorce is over.
The task of building a new life in the face of these thoughts and feelings can seem overwhelming. A divorce coach supports the client taking their first steps after divorce in several ways:
Identifying all areas of life that divorce has affected and to what extent
Assessing a client’s readiness for change affected and to what extent
Bypassing the most common mistakes made in the first year after divorce
Embracing a new vision of life going forward
Creating an action plan to realize that vision
Rebuilding relationships affected by divorce
Shaping an effective co-parenting relationship
Reinforcing confidence that a client will find love again if they so choose
Celebrating new opportunities and new dreams
Your Life Is Not Over
It is important to remember: your marriage may be over, but your life is not! We can choose to either suffer at the hands of fear and uncertainty or we can choose to relish the prospect of new challenges and new dreams. While this may seem an insurmountable task, I have the training and experience to support you in choosing what steps to take and when.
