Kurt’s experience in divorce through a child’s eyes watching his parents’ divorce, through his adult eyes experiencing his own divorce and as a coach and collaborative divorce lawyer imparts wise guidance on how our actions in a divorce affect all around us. Kurt adroitly argues that the collaborative divorce is a client centered superior approach. It is a realistic alternative that is more economical and timely with superior results. In collaborative divorce, lawyers are counselors and guides rather than pugilistic warriors. As a credentialed mediator who has mediated over 10,000 cases, I endorse the collaborative divorce approach that Kurt advocates as a less adversarial, client centered method that has the best interests of the children and the parents as paramount.